What business friend is…

When we are kids friends surpasses our demand… As kids we can make friends like it is candy dropping from the sky. We can screw up any relationship and the next day a 15 mins recess running around… We are buddy again. As we grow older, friends become less and yet the friends you got to keep or make seems to be build with a stronger bond. However you probably start experincing betrayal or heart broke into million pieces at this stage and get hurt terribly (you think). In any case you don’t really need to look back to grow your friends base… As you are still making lots of friends and the lost is much lower then the gain.

As you enter the bussiness world we are all warn friends does not exist in this playing feild. Yet we all or most of us will ignore it and continue the way we play in our early life. We try to make friends, take some of them into the inner circles n consider them as “brothers or sisters”. Unless you are alway the dumbest person… Eventually you will find the person beside you are a douche… They are scheming or have schemed against you, they are doing something behind you back, they are just there to enjoy your success. If you don’t get a chance to catch them… You will definately spot them all out when you fall… You attempt to call for help n is either busy or cut off.

Then after a while n couple of these incidents you might understand they are no friends in the business world. There are only people who have similar goals and join together to get somewhere together. You call these business friends. During the journey everyone is thinking when to get off and the last person will mostly be screw as no one that left the wagon before you had pay the fee. Or if you are unlucky one of the passenger might have alternate motive which is to rob you all, throw you out and hi-jack the vechile.

Then eventually you had the realization n simply stop calling people that you work with friends… They to you are all dangerous people that you need to live with. Then you look back at the friends you made in your early days and find everyone have split a part for too long or went into way different path and result most will not be able to the same friend again.